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I have only been blogging less than 4 months - it’ll be four months on August 14th! and I have already hit what’s known as writer’s block in blogging circles! Some of you might be laughing but its true if you do not know what your blog is going to be about. I am passionate about improving life skills and that’s what I like to write about. So how can one come to a total standstill in thoughts on personal development? There is so much I want to share on what has worked for me and what hasn’t. And I am working on improving many areas of my life on a daily basis, so how could I not have anything to say?
Every time I sat down to write that post, I started staring at the blank page and although I felt like there was something I wanted to write, I could not get started. So you know what I did? I browsed the Internet for good four hours. I read a whole lot of good articles. I also read Seth Godin….one amongst many of my favorite writers. And in his archives, I came across the following post …
"Make something happen today, before you go home, before the end of the week. Launch that idea, post that post, run that ad, call that customer. Go the edge, that edge you’ve been holding back from… and do it today. Without waiting for the committee or your boss or the market. Just go."
And that was it. I immediately felt I got what I needed. Don’t think about it, just do what you are supposed to do. Seth is usually talking about marketing, but as he mentions in his statement here, its applicable to just about everything in life. Its about making a decision and then sticking with it.
And this post is the result of that one statement. I also did some other things after reading this advice though. Like immediately after reading it, I completely logged out of StumbleUpon, Pownce, and even MyBlogLog. Then logged out of my mail, Google reader and completely closed the Internet. Got up and went straight to my gym’s yoga class. Yes, I do go to gym, sporadically, not as often as I would like to, but enough times to feel the pain in my bones! Not only I went to gym, I also came back renewed to be able to write this post. [And enough courage to reveal a secret, only if you read the entire post and write a 'meaningful' comment here].
So, if you are having a writer’s block, then may be you can try some of the things listed here and let us know if they worked for you. If you are one of those who has not ever experienced writer’s block or are able to tackle it before it hits you, please share with us what works for you.
Here are some of the ideas that seemed to have worked for me, this time anyway….
Let us know if you find this list helpful and if you have any other ideas to destroy that writer’s block!
Okay so now that secret!!
I also started working on my much awaited About page and have gathered enough courage to put up my picture. I hope most of you will still continue to come back and leave comments and engage in conversations. That will be my next post of course
Tags: writing, blogging, decision making
30 Responses
Peter
July 30th, 2007 at 1:06 am
1I find writing and then choosing a title works best for me. There is also nothing wrong if you choose not to write for 1 day and recharge the batteries. Always remember that your voice is what makes you important no matter what you write about
ashwin
July 30th, 2007 at 1:30 am
2I cannot agree with you any less, I feel the best thing to do is write down what ever comes to your mind not thinking about what the final result will be, we need to exercise our writing muscle regularly (brain) just like our body to get it in shape and working properly.
Can’t wait to see your real image, will be eagerly waiting.
Deborah
July 30th, 2007 at 3:42 am
3I find what works best for me is to write the story, and the title comes to me naturally from there.
I understand what you’re saying about writing a title and keeping it on file as a ‘bank’, which is basically a list of ideas for topics. Nothing says you can’t use that as the base of your topic, and then tweak your title once you’ve written your post.
Hell, we’re women, we’re allowed to change our minds, right? Right
And hey, you tricked me! I clicked on your ‘About’ link thinking I was going to catch a glimpse of the actual Pearl girl, and it brought me to your home page. Naughty girl, haha!
Tom
July 30th, 2007 at 4:59 am
4For the most part Pearl you’ve already found what I consider the best remedy available; all of your ideas that have to do with just writing, without exactly knowing where you’re going, add up to what I believe works best for me. And I think I know you well enough now to know you’ll never really be stopped in sharing all that is in you that you choose to share…and I truly look forward to the results!
Colin
July 30th, 2007 at 10:07 am
5Hi Pearl,
Yes you hit the nail on the head….writers block, the brain just becomes overwhelmed with so many different thoughts and ideas, and it is great to shut down the PC and walk away, relax and let the mind drift on to other things.
I have just hit 4 months too, and still do too much research, testing, tweaking etc. but it needs to be right from my point of view before I even consider writing it up and posting…..if others have a problem with it then they can comment freely.
Yo’re doing great though :o)
Mihaela Lica
July 30th, 2007 at 10:12 am
6Hi Pearl,
When I am at work… I don?t have so much time to leave comments on my favourite blogs, but… here I am, taking a five minutes break, to complete your list.
But first I have to tell you something about myself: the only times when I am completely offline are the Friday evenings, when I dance salsa in the arms of a Cuban dancer. He he. (I think he is not Cuban, but when I dance I am in my moment, so his nationality doesn’t really matter)
So… my advice for all the bloggers would be: just be yourselves. This is what blogging is all about. Don’t start posing in something you are not. If we sniff it (an we will) we’ll just browse away, to a more honest blogger.
Be true to your readers. Even when that writer’s block comes… better don’t write than giving us a crappy experience.
But if you love to write, just start typing. The words will flow naturally… they always do.
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Chee Kui
July 30th, 2007 at 2:03 pm
8Blogger’s block is normal..
What I did was, just type whatever that comes to my mind. if they doesn’t look nice, just don’t publish it. Keep it for future use.
Start again with a different topic.
You will definitely will come with something to write about
Ken Xu
July 30th, 2007 at 2:52 pm
9Oh, nice tips. Blogger’s block is happen to me almost every 2 days once!

But I happen to kick it away by some technique. Until today, If I want to write, I will know what to write and won’t hit a a big block anymore.
Well, hitting on a block is a daily accident in my 4 months writing experiences. Just think positively. I believe everything is going to be alright.
calm down some nerves with yoga is an excellent idea. I do tai chi everytime I’m sick of sitting on my hot chair (my chair easily get warm and hot by my bottom energy! lol ). Squeeze out some sweats will also help our brain think faster.
Cheers!
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July 30th, 2007 at 3:59 pm
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Jay
July 30th, 2007 at 4:02 pm
11I find myself getting writer’s block over personal development topics more than any other! I wrote a series of articles on personal growth and financial responsibility, and had the hardest time getting through them even though I knew exactly what I wanted to say. For me it’s because the topic is intensely personal, and it’s tough to share the whole gestalt in words.
My current blog is about Internet marketing, which seems to come much easier because I’m less personally invested in the topic. The tip about staying off the computer for a while is still critical, though. It’s easy to get sucked into all the non-writing tasks that come with running a blog and being online.
pearl
July 31st, 2007 at 1:25 am
12@Peter & Ashwin …. I agree… that actually is best practice… starting to churn out the material first and then give it a title that best suits…. but as long as we have some general idea about the subject…
pearl
July 31st, 2007 at 1:40 am
13Deb…:) how are you?? you are so right… yes we women have the right to change minds lol I like that one …….
I start getting goosebumps just thinking about it… like someone said, it might mess up my witness protection program
and guess what? I might not put up my picture up afterall
pearl
July 31st, 2007 at 1:44 am
14Tom…. yep.. All or some of these techniques will definitely work ……thanks for the confidence
pearl
July 31st, 2007 at 1:51 am
15@Colin — welcome to the blog … I am also spending a lot of time researching, tweaking things around here and already broke the template twice
it gets overwhelming sometimes and when it comes time to actually write, mind goes completely blank…. thanks for stopping by and commenting
@Jay… welcome to the site … I think you are absolutely right about this niche, it becomes harder and harder to write about any of personal development stuff without sharing some of the most personal stuff, either experiences or hobbies or habits… may be I should think about mixing in some other stuff too…like some tech issues or news opinions etc… good analysis… thanks for commenting…
ill be checking out both of your sites soon
please stop by again!
pearl
July 31st, 2007 at 1:57 am
16@Chee — great advice - just do it
whatever comes to mind, just write away ….
@Ken — you are too funny…:-) you get the writer’s block every two days? and you still are able to write almost every single day and maintain two blogs??
may be tai chi is what I need
pearl
July 31st, 2007 at 2:04 am
17Dearest Mihaela
you wrote that comment during your 5 minute break??? now that is incredible
And that Cuban dancer? On Friday nights, are you trying to tempt us here??
but yes, your point is absolutely true, better not to write when you have to force it out of you, natural writing without pressure is always better and more enjoyable….
I am just so glad my blog is amongst your favorite blogs Mig… thank you so much… tc
laketrees
July 31st, 2007 at 3:40 am
18I think it has all been said here Pearl….so I am going to plead commentator’s block……
ps….excellent points ….I have to choose constantly…between….catching up on the computer or catching up on my painting…..and my poor paintings are feeling a little neglected……as of late
ReviewSaurus
July 31st, 2007 at 5:42 am
19Wow! Excellent excellent post. I’ve been through the writers block and I think that mainly comes because of things going around in our lives. If you’ll stay happy, you won’t get the writer’s block frequently but if you are sad or have something else going in your mind then you’ll get writer’s block as often as snow storm in antartica.
pearl
July 31st, 2007 at 12:51 pm
20@ Laktrees………Thanks Kim… and I hear ya…. painting and then blogging about painting … thats a tough one……I have no idea how you do it all!!
@ Mayank…. I agree with you on the state of mind …..not being able to focus and no clarity is obviously a result of other things that occupy our minds…..real good insight!! Thanks… [that can be whole new post ;)]
ReviewSaurus
July 31st, 2007 at 3:46 pm
21@ pearl : I hope you’ll be coming up with something for this in the next post
pearl
July 31st, 2007 at 5:26 pm
22LOL let’s see!! it can be a nice interesting article though… with so many different aspects you brought up with just one comment
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Sueblimely
August 3rd, 2007 at 12:54 am
24Some great suggestions here Pearl and I will use some of the techniques you mention. Blogging can be hard work and.writer’s block or not. it is a good idea to have some respite from it from time to time, it can easily become all consuming.
I have more than enough ideas jotted down to last me years, my problem tends to be focusing on writing rather than research. I do think that jotting ideas and web links down as you go is very useful though. I use MS OneNote extensively for this. If I am wondering what to post I always have this to refer to to remind me of ideas I have had.
pearl
August 4th, 2007 at 2:43 pm
25thanks for stopping by again Sue.. you are right, it can be overwhelming… and it IS good to take a break but then so much goes on with so many blogs and its really hard to keep track of too…. I haven’t looked at MS OneNote, but I will now
thanks for the tip!
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