Comments on: Our thoughts and fears http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html On blogging, social media and self improvement! Sat, 15 May 2010 15:29:19 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: pearl http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html/comment-page-2#comment-1536 pearl Tue, 04 Sep 2007 03:26:31 +0000 http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html#comment-1536 thanks Ken ... I am a lot better now ... but totally drained of all energy! thanks Ken … I am a lot better now … but totally drained of all energy!

]]> By: Ken Xu http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html/comment-page-2#comment-1531 Ken Xu Tue, 04 Sep 2007 01:11:03 +0000 http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html#comment-1531 Hi, pearl. I'm so sorry to hear your accident. I hope everything is fine now. :( Hi, pearl. I’m so sorry to hear your accident. I hope everything is fine now. :(

]]> By: pearl http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html/comment-page-2#comment-1507 pearl Mon, 03 Sep 2007 03:59:30 +0000 http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html#comment-1507 <p>sorry Paquito... your comment got stuck in Akismet! I am out of that mode mostly! :) thanks for the tip...</p> <p>Kim and Kaylee... It was quite a week.... and we are still sort of shaken up! thanks for thinking of me guys! I'll be over to your blogs soon ;) tc</p> sorry Paquito… your comment got stuck in Akismet! I am out of that mode mostly! :) thanks for the tip…

Kim and Kaylee… It was quite a week…. and we are still sort of shaken up! thanks for thinking of me guys! I’ll be over to your blogs soon ;) tc

]]> By: kaylee http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html/comment-page-1#comment-1475 kaylee Sun, 02 Sep 2007 08:22:13 +0000 http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html#comment-1475 tough week thinking of ya :) tough week thinking of ya :)

]]> By: laketrees http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html/comment-page-1#comment-1473 laketrees Sun, 02 Sep 2007 08:17:41 +0000 http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html#comment-1473 oh dear Pearl what a tough week.....your Dad being unwell and you having a car accident !!!!!....please take it easy.....I will be thinking of you...... oh dear Pearl
what a tough week…..your Dad being unwell and you having a car accident !!!!!….please take it easy…..I will be thinking of you……

]]> By: kaylee http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html/comment-page-1#comment-1468 kaylee Sun, 02 Sep 2007 06:58:25 +0000 http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html#comment-1468 O MY GOSSH THATS SCARY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:( O MY GOSSH THATS SCARY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:(

]]> By: pearl http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html/comment-page-1#comment-1466 pearl Sun, 02 Sep 2007 05:44:07 +0000 http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html#comment-1466 thank you my friends! I sure will get back to normal soon.... as if the month of August didn't have enough reminders of heartache, we had another scare when my dad passed out a few days ago! My family didn't inform me because I had just had a car accident this week! Don't our loved ones just overdo it sometimes when they are trying to protect us? That is exactly what happened! and needless to say I have been over stressed and furious about this! Dad is a heart patient and is diabetic! but is fine now but the episode has completely drained us all! thank you Kaylee, Mig, Kim, Tom and RennyBA... I really appreciate your thoughts and concerns!! Kim.. I have that book by Dale... and used to read it when I was in college!!! but thanks for reminding me of it! I really do need to read it again!! thanks RennyBA ... your comment about being able to control our thoughts did hit home! Sometimes we need only a slight distraction to break us out of the pattern! Mig and Tom... thanks for being there for me! you are right! its just not okay to KNOW that our parents are not going to be there one day! this is so inevitable and I really hate it! I am trying to be strong but also feel selfish sometimes in trying to feel strong! its a weird feeling! thank you my friends! I sure will get back to normal soon…. as if the month of August didn’t have enough reminders of heartache, we had another scare when my dad passed out a few days ago! My family didn’t inform me because I had just had a car accident this week! Don’t our loved ones just overdo it sometimes when they are trying to protect us? That is exactly what happened! and needless to say I have been over stressed and furious about this! Dad is a heart patient and is diabetic! but is fine now but the episode has completely drained us all!

thank you Kaylee, Mig, Kim, Tom and RennyBA… I really appreciate your thoughts and concerns!!

Kim.. I have that book by Dale… and used to read it when I was in college!!! but thanks for reminding me of it! I really do need to read it again!! thanks

RennyBA … your comment about being able to control our thoughts did hit home! Sometimes we need only a slight distraction to break us out of the pattern!

Mig and Tom… thanks for being there for me! you are right! its just not okay to KNOW that our parents are not going to be there one day! this is so inevitable and I really hate it! I am trying to be strong but also feel selfish sometimes in trying to feel strong! its a weird feeling!

]]> By: RennyBA http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html/comment-page-1#comment-1452 RennyBA Sat, 01 Sep 2007 16:10:45 +0000 http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html#comment-1452 You might be right in that thoughts have the power to manifest themselves eventually, but also you have the power to control your thoughts. Besides; what you focus on, you'll get more of. If course I have fears, but try to think positive; like seeing the bottle half full and not half empty. Hope you'll have a good break and welcome back:-) You might be right in that thoughts have the power to manifest themselves eventually, but also you have the power to control your thoughts. Besides; what you focus on, you’ll get more of.
If course I have fears, but try to think positive; like seeing the bottle half full and not half empty.
Hope you’ll have a good break and welcome back:-)

]]> By: Tom http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html/comment-page-1#comment-1443 Tom Sat, 01 Sep 2007 04:38:40 +0000 http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html#comment-1443 Mostly Pearl...I just hope your emergency resolves itself as well as it can for you. And as Mig said above...sometimes it's not all ok especially when it comes to our parents, I've been there. And I'll be here when you get back. Mostly Pearl…I just hope your emergency resolves itself as well as it can for you. And as Mig said above…sometimes it’s not all ok especially when it comes to our parents, I’ve been there. And I’ll be here when you get back.

]]> By: Mihaela Lica http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html/comment-page-1#comment-1428 Mihaela Lica Fri, 31 Aug 2007 11:30:28 +0000 http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html#comment-1428 As you said, sweet Pearl, these things are a part of life. I have the same fears, you know... and being really far away from my parents makes things worse. I will not tell you that everything will be OK. Things change in life, and some are inevitable and not OK. I will tell you however to be strong and make the best out of each day. Love, Mig As you said, sweet Pearl, these things are a part of life. I have the same fears, you know… and being really far away from my parents makes things worse.
I will not tell you that everything will be OK. Things change in life, and some are inevitable and not OK.
I will tell you however to be strong and make the best out of each day.

Love,

Mig

]]> By: laketrees http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html/comment-page-1#comment-1420 laketrees Fri, 31 Aug 2007 02:17:07 +0000 http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html#comment-1420 oh Pearl ....I hope everything will be ok !!!!! (hugs) Worrying....good question.....I conquered most of my fears (about 10 years ago) after reading How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie I worry for 10 minutes every morning....about everything possible...that could go wrong....I analyse.... if I can do anything about the problem....if not ...I let it go.....and then I don't worry about anything for the rest of the day... Prayer and Faith are great remedies for worry... here is a direct link to a summary of Dale Carnegie's book....great reading Pearl..... http://www.westegg.com/unmaintained/carnegie/stop-worry.html oh Pearl ….I hope everything will be ok !!!!! (hugs)
Worrying….good question…..I conquered most of my fears (about 10 years ago) after reading How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie
I worry for 10 minutes every morning….about everything possible…that could go wrong….I analyse…. if I can do anything about the problem….if not …I let it go…..and then I don’t worry about anything for the rest of the day…
Prayer and Faith are great remedies for worry…
here is a direct link to a summary of Dale Carnegie’s book….great reading Pearl…..
http://www.westegg.com/unmaintained/carnegie/stop-worry.html

]]> By: kaylee http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html/comment-page-1#comment-1416 kaylee Thu, 30 Aug 2007 22:52:36 +0000 http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html#comment-1416 Well I hope everything is okay with you? :) Well I hope everything is okay with you? :)

]]> By: Paquito http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html/comment-page-1#comment-1415 Paquito Thu, 30 Aug 2007 21:59:38 +0000 http://fresh-perspectives.net/2007/08/our-thoughts-and-fears.html#comment-1415 Maybe it's because I belong to another culture but, having negative attitudes is human and, a balanced human being has positive and negative feelings: that's out of discussion :-) My only tip regarding this kind of things is: do whatever your heart ask for... Just do whatever you feel you have to do to change your negative feelings into positives... And that's all :-) Regards from Spain, Paquito. http://paquito4ever.blogspot.com Maybe it’s because I belong to another culture but, having negative attitudes is human and, a balanced human being has positive and negative feelings: that’s out of discussion :-)

My only tip regarding this kind of things is: do whatever your heart ask for… Just do whatever you feel you have to do to change your negative feelings into positives…

And that’s all :-)

Regards from Spain,

Paquito.
http://paquito4ever.blogspot.com

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