Comments on: Your Instincts and gut feelings are mostly true – Trust them

By: advice guru

advice guru — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 21:55:35 +0000

I usually know what I should do and wish later that I would have done it. advice gurus last blog post..internet. Equalizer?

By: Don

Don — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 13:49:32 +0000

In my experience, often it’s my logic and rational thinking that hinders me from following my intuition. I’m not saying that rational thinking is bad, just when it conflicts with my intuition often the intuition is right.

By: GiveBackToYourself

GiveBackToYourself — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 07:07:52 +0000

There is no doubt that you’ve got to trust you’re intuition. But then you have to combine it with being rational at once. You can’t have blunders, just for the sake of being impulsive.

By: judith

judith — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 12:20:45 +0000

I’m a great believer in listening to your ‘gut’ feeling, it is so often right. Having said that I feel initially you should approach each person/situation with an open mind, but if alarm bells start ringing, listen to them. Step back and think, sleep on it. So often things have resolved themselves in the morning. If not then the cold light of day should bring you to your senses.

By: Nina

Nina — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 22:54:50 +0000

With more experience I get more insight in the actions I am taking and what kind of outcome waits me. Listening to this gut feeling can really keep you above the troubles. Ninas last blog post..Philippe Richard Pressure Cooker

By: Psychic

Psychic — Sat, 20 Sep 2008 14:40:59 +0000

I guess its all about whether or not you listen to your inner voice.

I always listen to it personally, but then only time I didn’t listen to it, I ended up in deep trouble.

I guess its all a scenario of what you want, sometimes you want something to happen and it really does!

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Anti Scams Product Reviews — Mon, 15 Sep 2008 14:59:20 +0000

Great read Pearl. I totally agree. going with your instincts is key in life.

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By: pearl

pearl — Sat, 13 Sep 2008 23:47:39 +0000

That was the idea Other Mac :) welcome to my blog…

By: Other Mac

Other Mac — Sat, 13 Sep 2008 16:41:57 +0000

Intresting read. The cute fox was a great picture for your post.
Looks so cute, but in reality he/she is sleeping off a great meal of your cat.

By: Internet Monitor

Internet Monitor — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 23:25:05 +0000

I absolutely agree about your 6th sense. I have been listening to mine with utmost care lately and I feel so much better for it. I am a Gemini – so I am constantly battling with the two spirits inside of me, and it’s hard stay focused; but when I get that feeling of, “stay back” or “caution” I listen.

It’s kept me from fraud, car accidents and losing a lot more than money.

Thanks for sharing,

-J

By: pearl

pearl — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 19:57:10 +0000

@Wayne: sorry you had bad experience!

@Data Entry Lady: Stolen identity is real pain in the neck. You can write to the credit card company and ask what was done, just for your record.

@kouji: right!

@TDMV: good example :)

@Dharmedra… hmmm thanks!

@Justin: That’s the idea! It’s a fox after all!

@TRCoach: yep.. I agree!

By: rummuser

rummuser — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 14:10:19 +0000

There is a rule that I follow that has stood the test of time. “Trust people till you are proven otherwise.” I may be fortunate or just plain dumb, there has so far been only one instance of some one taking advantage of my trust. I have made a lot of friends in real and blog world and that is quite a rate of hits and only one miss! On analysis, I am sure that most of us would find that the miss rate will be very low. That is nature teaching us lessons.

It is however quite right that one is careful on the internet as we are constantly being advised by various sources and circulating emails.

By: Personal Development by TRCoach

Personal Development by TRCoach — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 21:29:33 +0000

In quantum physics, one theory is that we are all connected by a single field. Its easy to see where this intuition comes from, if we are all connected. The important thing is to listen to it – too often we ignore our gut feeling.
Thanks, Tom (TRCoach)

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By: Justin

Justin — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 17:55:55 +0000

I agree. I go with my instinct most of the time, and it usually (not 100%, but a good percentage) turns out right. By the way, that picture of the Fox is cute.

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By: Dharmendra

Dharmendra — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 15:36:50 +0000

Nice read…

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By: TDMV

TDMV — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 11:16:45 +0000

Pearl
Gut feelings are sometimes more truthful then we want to acknowledge. I know you read Mig’s latest post about the ad-scheme, and I as I told her, my gut feeling tolde me to stay away. She proved me right :)
Even on the internet, first impressions count. We should listen more to these ’stirrings in the belly’, although I always follow my personal rule: there’s a 1% chance I’m wrong.
A lot can be learned by simply observing what people write (reading between the lines) and how they write it. Like all other skils, practice makes perfect.

Theo (or Yinepu) :)

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By: kouji

kouji — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 08:40:06 +0000

and in an online world, where it’s so easy for a person to fake an online persona, sometimes gut is all you have left. true… the internet makes it that much more important to be cautious.

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By: Data Entry Lady

Data Entry Lady — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 21:20:36 +0000

My husband recently had his identity stolen. They opened a credit card account, a bank account and got away with $13,000. Fortunately the credit card company has taken full responsibility and cleared the account but it is a warning call. We have no idea how they did it. The credit card never showed up at the house though a follow up letter did. I have really puzzled over it but it doesn’t hurt to use common sense and trust your gut instinct – as you encourage.

Thanks!

By: Wayne

Wayne — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 17:38:13 +0000

That seems like some pretty solid advice. I always ’suspect’ everyone until I’m proven otherwise. There are just too many people that feel taking advantage of others is acceptable to promote themselves…and that’s just not right.

Hell, I trusted my recruiter when I joined the Navy….the worst mistake of my life…too young and just too naive. Learned a real hard lesson, and it’s helped to make me less trusting.

Thank you US Military, you wasted my time.

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By: pearl

pearl — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 15:58:27 +0000

@Laketrees: It definitely is hard to start off not trusting someone, that’s why so many of the good hearted people in those stories got conned… was just a good reminder .. thanks for stopping by Kim..

@betshopboy: That’s just so damn sad Chee Wee.. teenagers are at most risk not having much experience

@Glen: thank you so much for stumbling Glen.. I think it’s easier to be careful in a bar than when you are talking to someone online from the safety of your home, that’s when you are most vulnerable if not careful

@Jade: Online dating is a tricky thing.. may be you can try meeting people in person in a public place so there’s no picture exchange dilemma.. good luck jade.. hope it all works out for you..

By: Jade

Jade — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 11:47:36 +0000

I am one of those people with self-esteem issues. I tried online dating once, but it seemed that men were looking for Barbie. I would meet someone who I had been emailing/talking with for awhile, and getting along with well, had lots in common, exchange pics, etc. I’d either find out they were fake, or they would never call me after meeting. I got to where I just would never meet them. When it got to be time to meet, I’d just cut off contact, because I was afraid of rejection. I never lied to anyone, and sent current photos, but I guess that there are some things that photos don’t show, because I had at least two guys tell me I didn’t look like my picture, then they never called again. I’ve met online friends whose pictures I’ve never seen, and they looked nothing like what I thought they would.

By: Glen Allsopp

Glen Allsopp — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 07:24:28 +0000

I love this pearl, it rings so true. Although sometimes I believe we have a form of ‘defence’ to stop us doing things that we think are scary, even though in reality they are actually very safe i.e. talking to a stranger in a bar, trying a roller-coaster etc.

Great post, stumbled!

Cheers,
Glen

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By: betshopboy

betshopboy — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 06:59:24 +0000

We should all learn to be more discretionary in our online dealings, especially be more guarded about giving away personal/credit card info.

Don’t put ourselves in a vulnerable position without an “escape route”.

Stories of scammers and fraudsters are quite often reported. I’ve heard of teenagers who committed suicide after being harassed by cyber bullies. That’s a tragedy.

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By: laketrees

laketrees — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 03:22:54 +0000

hmmmm …very interesting post Pearl…
it’s easy to be too trusting…..
I think it’s a lot harder being suspicious of peoples’ motives..
that’s my opinion anyway…

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By: pearl

pearl — Sun, 07 Sep 2008 23:17:56 +0000

Teeni.. thank YOU so much for writing that post and bringing forth this issue.. It sure is sad that people have to be so devious.. I worry about younger people since most of the networks like facebook and StumbleUpon are open to just about everyone.. I hope more people read these posts and are aware of what’s out there..

By: teeni

teeni — Sun, 07 Sep 2008 21:09:11 +0000

Thanks for the link love, Pearl! It really is sad to think that this happens but it does. I’ve linked to your post from my latest post as well. While not wanting to make everyone paranoid, it IS good to remind ourselves every so often that we need to be aware and alert. :)